A Wake-Up Call
The outcome of an emotional affair can have an upside: Failing your own values can make you more committed to them in the future,. So consider the experience a wake-up call to what is missing not only in your relationship but also within yourself.
When you realized that if I can’t talk to my husband the way you talk to your friend, then there’s a big problem that you need to fix first in your marriage. And while some marital experts say it’s not imperative that you admit having emotional affairs to your husband — in fact, you may even hurt him needlessly by doing so—some women don’t feel like they can fully move on unless they come clean
